Aligned With Thy True Self

I know most of you out there go through stages in life wherein you resonate with things and people for a certain point in time, and eventually grow apart from. In your head, you're probably thinking-- "oh no, I've changed". Don't let this be a bad thing, THIS IS good. It's a good thing. You are evolving to the right person you were supposed to be, where you were meant to be headed in the first place. Often times, people may not understand your change and would take this against you, don't. Understand that this is your process, this is you shining through. It's your cocooning stage in that point in your life.

How would you know if this is most authentic to your growth? You WILL know when it gets silent at night and you can sit with yourself without the background noise and the over downloading of data, and tell yourself--this is change. Now, cocooning happens all the time in different stages of your adulthood and don't fret when you feel a sudden uncomfortable wave of energy, that is you improving and maturing. You suddenly feel how your decision making changes and your habits change with it too.

In the past year for me, I have filtered and condensed my interactions to a selected few with a smaller circle of friends. I kept in contact with people whom I felt that I most resonated with when it comes to my future growth and present aspirations. In return, the universe allowed such a blessing to come my way. It may not be an obvious shift, but you will feel more and more genuine about the choices you make even if it means letting go of people and things you truly think your life will not benefit from. Do not feel bad, it does not mean these things or people are bad for you, they just don't allow your personal authentic self to flourish. On the other hand, there are also those friends who allow you to grow, and they extend that same energy no matter what the distance or time is between each other, so cherish that and be grateful for this.

Today, there is more acceptance for both the change and the uncomfortable for me. I allow it to happen, and let it brew in its right timing. All in all, just be aligned with thy self--and it shall happen.